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Making a Difference Through Community

Effingham County resident, Catie Wilkins was diagnosed with an aggressive brain tumor on her first birthday. Catie fearlessly fought her cancer, but the chemotherapy compromised her immune system so severely that she succumbed to a common virus before she reached her fifth birthday. In response to this tragedy, a special community has formed that is making a meaningful impact in the fight against pediatric cancer.

Effingham County sits on the Savannah River and while it has grown, it still boasts the small-town feel of its agricultural heritage. It is a place the Wilkins family is proud to call home. In the aftermath of their tragic loss, they knew Catie would want them to help other families, so they founded a Named Fund at CURE in her honor.

“Catie’s treatment was hampered by a lack of available options,” Jenny said. “There has been little research in treating childhood cancers, and our family felt that this needed to change.”

Their community embraced Catie’s Fund from the beginning. This year, the fund surpassed an incredible milestone by raising more than $2 million since its inception. This wouldn’t have been possible without people like James Carlson.

James owns Carlson & Company, and while he has no direct tie to childhood cancer, he has seen local families struggle while going through treatment. He and his company are actively involved in the Catie’s Gathering dinners, the primary fundraisers for Catie’s Fund, and donate event space, tents, and food.

“I’ve watched Catie’s Gathering evolve from hostesses using paper plates and plastic forks to using fine china and silverware,” James laughed. “I’m proud to be a part because of the impact it allows CURE to have in our community.”

The schools in Effingham County have been a huge part of the success of Catie’s Fund. The leadership at Springfield Elementary School wanted to impress upon their students the value of making a difference.

“We had a student who fought cancer, and we wanted to give the kids ways to help,” said teacher, Allison Brand. “Through dress-down days, coin drives, and other fundraisers, we’ve been able to contribute a lot of money. It’s great to see the kids really get into helping other kids.”

Apryl Lee attended a Catie’s Gathering event and felt the need to pitch in. Apryl founded a local SLAM (Sweat Like A Mother) group. This is a community of mothers and their children with a goal of fitness and health. While they celebrate their healthy children, she has used her forum to raise awareness and money for Catie’s Fund.

“I wanted to set an example for my children,” Apryl said. “I want them to know that we do what we can, when we can, to help others.”

Being next door, adding a Catie’s Gathering dinner in Savannah was a natural progression that became a reality in 2013 when Mandy Garola attended the Effingham event while her daughter, Cora, was in treatment. Seven years later, the Savannah Catie’s Gathering continues to thrive and has been supported by individuals and businesses, such as Coastal Electric, which has become the event’s title sponsor.

Thanks to the efforts of friends like Jody Polk, the Catie’s Fund community spread even further. Jody’s daughter, Anna Hays, is a leukemia survivor, and five years ago, Jody brought a Catie’s Gathering dinner to Statesboro. After the death of a local child, Morgan Frison, Jody spoke of what motivates her.

“Morgan’s life held such beautiful potential,” Jody said. “Morgan and children like her are the reason that I will continue to raise funds for CURE and push for less harsh treatments created specifically for children.”

Likewise, longtime friend of the Wilkins family, Angel Shurling, started a Catie’s Gathering event in her hometown of Bryan County four years ago.

“There were two children in our community who were diagnosed with cancer,” Angel said. “Every heart was open to them, and people wanted to make a difference. Catie’s Gathering gave them that chance.”

Thanks to their amazing and ever-growing community, the Wilkins family, Catie’s Fund, and all those involved are making a huge difference in the lives of children fighting cancer today and those yet to be diagnosed. It has become a beautiful legacy for a little girl taken too soon.

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Giving Cancer the BOOT… Army Style

Chief Warrant Officer 2 Noah Garner is a helicopter pilot in the United States Army. He entered the service in as an infantryman, then became a sniper and served in combat duty. After he rotated home, he made the decision to pursue aviation and hasn’t looked back. While his military career has taken many twists and turns over the past twelve years, the last three have been particularly turbulent because his youngest daughter, Chloe, was diagnosed with a brain tumor.

In 2017, Chloe had a slight head tilt and Noah and his wife, Annie, noticed her eye was shaking. They took Chloe to the base physician, who said she didn’t feel prepared to diagnose the issue and sent them to the hospital.

“We were supposed to be there for a quick 30-minute MRI,” recalled Annie. “But that turned into five hours. When the doctor finished, he came in and said she had a tumor.”

Further testing would reveal that her tumor was an optical glioma, and because of its type and location, it is rare for such a tumor to be surgically removed. Most of the time, the goal is to stabilize the tumor to prevent growth. Her doctors began to closely monitor Chloe’s tumor, and after nearly a year it was declared stable. Unfortunately, tumor growth was evident at a scan four months later, and even more in the next scan. So Chloe began a chemotherapy regimen designed to shrink it. Being separated during her treatment proved to be difficult for Noah.

“That was tough, especially during long rotations of nine months,” Noah said. “We relied on the internet to Facetime each other and send Marco Polo videos. I would get up very early in the morning so I could spend time with them before they went to bed.”

Noah was serving in Europe at the time. When they got the bad news of tumor growth, the commander of his unit was very supportive and worked to get him home as soon as possible.

The new chemo yielded frustrating results. Chloe’s tumor continued to be erratic – it would be stable at one scan and show growth the next. After another year, her medical team put Chloe on a new chemo called Avastin. And it worked!

For the first time, Noah and Annie heard the words, “Significant tumor reduction.” Noah was out of the country at the time, but the family celebrated this victory long distance!

Chloe recently finished her treatment. While she is feeling good, her vision has been affected. She has optic nerve damage from the tumor and her vision isn’t 20/20. But right now, she’s back to dancing and enjoying her favorite movie, Frozen. Her mother describes her as feisty and stubborn – traits that helped carry her through her long and difficult treatment.

On November 2, Chloe rang the bell to signify that she’s finished with cancer. This was something Noah would never miss. While his duty will force him to return to the base quickly, Noah drove up from Savannah to celebrate with his baby. Together they gave cancer the boot – Army style!

On Veteran’s Day, CURE would like to thank Noah and all those who serve and have served.

Thumbs Up for Bernie

On a camping road trip with her three children, Jenny Jobson began feeling sick. By the time they arrived at their destination in Texas, she had identified the source of her illness and had quite a surprise for her husband.

“At some point, I realized my sickness was actually pregnancy,” she said. “We thought our family was complete since my then-youngest was ten years old. But God has the best sense of humor. Bernadette came along and turned out to be the missing puzzle piece we didn’t know we needed.”

Bernadette became affectionately known as Bernie and was adored by her family from the start. Her siblings had all been incredibly healthy children, so when Bernie had unusual symptoms at 18 months old, Jenny felt something was seriously wrong.

“She began sweating a lot, had unusual temper tantrums, and her face was swollen,” Jenny recalled. “Then she got a bump on her finger that wouldn’t go away even with an antibiotic.”

Unexplained bruising and splotches on her face convinced Bernie’s pediatrician to send her to the emergency room for further evaluation where a blood test revealed that Bernie’s white blood cell count had skyrocketed to 300,000. A healthy person has a white blood cell count of about 4,000 – 11,000. Further testing confirmed that Bernie had acute myeloid leukemia. She received her first dose of chemotherapy that very day.

Bernie’s treatment plan consisted of four rounds of chemotherapy. Along with wiping out cancer, chemo also destroys the white blood cells that fight infection in a healthy person. That meant that each round required a hospital stay of 20-25 days so her blood cells would recover. Bernie’s four rounds of chemo lasted 150 days, 97 of which were spent in the hospital – which is grueling for anyone, especially a toddler.

“If she wanted to leave the room, she had to wear a mask,” Jenny said. “But Bernie didn’t like to wear masks. So we spent all of our time in the room with the television on.”

Bernie finally got used to wearing her mask so they could explore other areas of the hospital. In the beginning, she fought every single needle poke – and there were many. Gradually she began to handle being in the hospital better and now she thinks it is normal to go to the doctor so much. Her parents got great news after her four rounds of chemo – Bernie was in remission! She began monthly labs that consistently showed her to be cancer-free, and now she has moved to appointments every six months at the survivor’s clinic. Although Bernie is doing great, she will always have to have her heart monitored due to the toxicity of the treatment she received.

But now, Bernie is thriving. She loves ballet and other forms of dancing, art, building things, and of course, princesses. She seems to have forgotten most of the rigors of her treatment. But her parents remember.

“I will never be grateful that Bernie was sick,” Jenny said. “But I’m thankful for the life lessons and perspective that it gave me and our family.”

Jenny also recognizes the role that CURE played. She appreciated the Open Arms meals and toiletry bags provided during her long stays. She also expressed gratitude for the Tote Bag she received.

“We got the CURE tote bag two hours after her diagnosis,” she explained. “At first I was a little resentful because it meant that Bernie really did have cancer. But that bag became my constant companion to all our appointments. The tips from other parents were very helpful, and I used the journal to track everything related to her treatment.”

Childhood Cancer Books

Reading about children with cancer or about cancer itself can sometimes make it less scary for young children. The following is a list of resources, most of which should be available on Amazon.com or your favorite bookseller.

(**The content within these book recommendations reflects only the author’s views and not necessarily the wider views of CURE. As always, for medical advice and guidance, please speak to your child’s medical team.)

Books for Kids and Teens

H is for Hair Fairy by Kim Martin

Alex and the Amazing Lemonade Stand by Liz and Jay Scott

Henry and the White Wolf by Tyler Karu and Tim Karu

Do I have to go to the Hospital? By Pat Thomas

Miss Fannie’s Hat by Jan Karon

The Hare Who Lost Her Hair by Amy Leonard

You and Leukemia by Lynn Baker

Kathy’s Hats by Trudy Krisher

The Lemonade Club by Patricia Polacco

Books for Siblings

Oliver’s Story: For Sibs of Kids with Cancer by Michael Dodd

What About Me?  When Brothers and Sisters Get Sick by Allan Peterkin

Books for Friends and Classmates

How Do You Care for a Very Sick Bear?  by Vanessa Bayer

Why Charlie Brown, Why? by Charles Schulz

Books Regarding Grief for Kids

The Memory Box  by Joanna Rowland

The Invisible String by Patricia Karst

The Sad Dragon by Steve Herman

Kyla Bands

When faced with weeks of quarantine earlier this year, people dealt with the time at home in all different ways. Some people read books, binged television series, or figured out how to work out at home to stay in shape. Others complained that they were too close to their refrigerator 24 hours a day. Some people dove into their hobbies. One 8-year-old girl in New Jersey spent her time learning something useful.

That girl’s name is Kyla, and when faced with hours at home, she decided to learn a new craft. Kyla had been given a finger loom kit, which has a tool used to weave colorful rubber bands into decorative items. So she learned how to make bracelets out of the rubber bands.

“She made them all day long,” said her mother, Shannon. “We thought she would get bored with it, but she kept on going until they piled up!”

Once Kyla had accumulated inventory, she came up with a plan. Kyla is no stranger to childhood cancer. She has a friend who lost her cousin to neuroblastoma, and she also met a girl at camp who had cancer one year and came back as a survivor the next. Kyla’s heart was touched by both children, and she wanted to do something.

“I want to help kids so they don’t have to get sick anymore,” Kyla declared to her parents one day.
With this in mind, she started calling her bracelets Kylabands and worked with her parents to sell them and donate all of the proceeds to CURE. She started selling them to friends online and the first day made $600! Sales trailed off a little after that day, but Kyla is thinking of new ways to market her bands.

“She may make kits that kids can use to create their own bands,” explained Shannon. “She is also considering making mask chains so that kids can wear their facemasks around their necks and won’t lose them or have to set them down on their desks at school.”

Each shipment of a Kylaband includes a note from Kyla:

Thank you for supporting CURE Childhood Cancer. Let’s band together to help fight pediatric cancer.

Kyla is in the third grade, and her school has recently returned to in-person classes. While this cuts into her Kylaband production time, she is happy to be getting back to normal. She told her mother that she feels like she is making a difference.

We can assure you, Kyla… you’re making a huge difference!

More Like a Friend

How a unique relationship between patient and doctor led to an unexpected gift

 

One day, Dionne Gould was holding and nuzzling a friend’s baby and she teased her teenage son, Matthew, that she was going to nuzzle his neck, too. But when she moved toward him, she noticed that his neck was swollen. After a closer look, she decided to take Matthew to an urgent care clinic. The clinic sent Matthew to the hospital. About an hour after arrival, the emergency room doctor came back with a surprise diagnosis – acute lymphoblastic leukemia (ALL). Matthew’s chemotherapy treatment began right away.

“It took a long time for Matthew to reach remission,” Dionne recalled. “Every time they tested him, there was always a trace of the cancer.”

Finally, he received a bone marrow transplant that helped him achieve remission. For Matthew, this was the worst part of his treatment. After a second bone marrow transplant, Matthew’s cancer has been stable. Being a member of a close family helped see him through the hardships of treatment. Matthew also had a small group of very close friends to lean on during treatment. He and three other young men have been friends since middle school, and his friends were there for him the entire time! He also enlarged that circle of friends by beginning an unlikely friendship during his cancer treatment.

For nearly two decades, CURE has funded the training of pediatric oncology fellows at Emory University School of Medicine. Providing funding to further their education helps ensure that those future oncologists become the clinicians and researchers we need in order to eradicate childhood cancer.

During his medical training at Emory, Dr. Ryan Summers was a CURE fellow. Now he is a pediatric oncologist at Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta. He happened to be in a group of doctors who congregated in Matthew’s room to discuss his care with his mother. Overwhelmed by them, Matthew pulled the covers over his head. But he soon realized that there was something special about one of those doctors – Dr. Summers.

“When I first saw him, I thought he was too young to be a doctor,” laughed Matthew. “I found out he likes Star Wars and the same video games as me. And he would talk to me about his kids. He always treated me more like a friend than a patient.”

That friendship led to something very special. At the time, Dr. Summers was working on a research project involving mouse models that he was particularly excited about. So much so, that he would discuss it with Matthew and the “mouse research” became an inside joke between the two.

When Matthew was offered a wish by the Make-A-Wish Foundation, he began pondering his options.

“I was walking the halls one day and I saw the little kids and babies in treatment,” Matthew shared. “Right then I knew that I wanted better treatments for them than what I had, so I told my mom I wanted to give my wish to the mice.”

From that moment, Matthew never wavered. Although his mother playfully suggested a Hawaiian vacation, she knew his mind was made up. Dr. Summers also tried to talk Matthew out of it to no avail. It took a little time, but in an incredibly selfless gesture, Matthew contributed his wish ($5000) to Dr. Summers’ research.

That’s not the end of their story either. Matthew is a senior in high school this year and plans on becoming a doctor. Given his own experience with the disease, Matthew hopes to focus on pediatric oncology research. And if he and Dr. Summers have their way, they will work side by side and conquer childhood cancer together.

 

A Lasting Legacy

Larry Connolly was recruited to CURE’s Board of Directors in 2006 by his good friend, Vernon O’Neal. He ended up serving on the board for nine years, including two years as president, one as vice president, and one year as treasurer. Those years were pivotal years for CURE, during which the organization experienced tremendous growth.

Larry sold his company in 2012 and started the Connolly Family Foundation. After looking for the best way to support CURE now and in the future, Larry decided to focus on CURE’s partnership with Emory University School of Medicine in support of fellowship training. Larry decided to work with CURE to create a fellowship endowment at Emory.

CURE has funded fellows for more than 20 years, and 18 former CURE fellows are now practicing medicine in top institutions around the country, treating patients and pursuing research for cures. The funding of a pediatric oncology fellow allows these young doctors to further their education and ensure that they become clinicians and researchers focused on cancers that affect children. Larry is a staunch supporter of CURE’s vision to invest in the training of these young doctors and sees it as beneficial for more than just the young doctor funded.

“What I like about providing funding for a fellow is that it is not only good for CURE, it is good for the city of Atlanta,” explained Larry. “This funding will hopefully bring quality young professionals into the city and keep them here to the benefit of our children.”

By making this an endowment, it isn’t one fellow who will be funded. The CURE Connolly Family Fellow is a lasting legacy that will perpetually fund fellow after fellow for years to come.

The first Connolly Family Fellow is Dr. Sanyu Janardan.

Dr. Janardan earned her MD at the University of Minnesota and completed her pediatrics residency at Yale. Dr. Janardan’s fellowship research will focus on studying barriers to exercise in childhood cancer survivors and she will be completing her Masters of Science in Clinical Research at Emory University during her fellowship.

“Because of your generosity, I will be able to dedicate my time and energy to my research during my second and third years of my fellowship,” Dr. Janardan said. “My goal is to study the late effects of treatment in childhood cancer survivors. This is a topic I’ve been interested in since medical school and I’m excited to be able to further explore this area during my research time in order to help make meaningful contributions to our patients and improve their long-term outcomes.”

CURE is grateful to Larry Connolly for his years of dedication to CURE and to him and the Connolly family for entrusting us with this gift that will impact children fighting cancer for years to come.

 

 

“It is very gratifying to observe from afar how CURE continues to evolve and is making such an impact on so many lives.”

-Larry Connolly

 

My Golden Boy

By Kay Buelvas

 

Gold: (adjective) bright, metallic; exceptionally valuable; having glowing vitality; radiant; full of happiness, prosperity, or vigor; highly talented and favored; destined for success

Once upon a time I had a Golden Boy. He was everything listed above, but most of all he was our precious treasure. Then cancer showed its repulsive face on June 14, 2006.

Our son, Raul, was diagnosed with metastatic osteosarcoma two weeks before his 13th birthday. This was the day that everything changed. Instead of carefree summer days at the pool, we were thrust into a dark world of chemotherapy, surgeries, blood counts, and transfusions. Life continued for others – birthday parties, movies, ice cream, sports. Our life became blurred by hours at clinics, days, and nights in the hospital, weight loss, and lack of sleep. I cried silent tears as I secretly collected the clumps of hair on his pillow, stuffing the cherished locks into plastic bags. Every holiday, every photo, my mind faced the possibility that this is it: the last family gathering, the last Christmas. Each milestone that was reached felt like I was laughing in cancer’s face, that we were winning. I pretended that life was fine and normal, when every cell within me was screaming in pain.

It hurts to remember, but I have to act. What can I do to make life better for the next child and his or her family? How can you help make a difference in the suffering of a child?

Childhood cancer is on the rise. It is the number 1 cause of death by disease in children. Children are the most valuable thing we have. They are more precious than gold.

September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month. CURE Childhood Cancer is a Georgia-based organization that donates more than $4.3 million annually to research projects at leading U.S. institutions with the goal of improving pediatric cancer survival statistics, while seeking less toxic treatment methods. CURE also provides emergency assistance to ease financial burdens during treatment, brings meals to patients and caregivers, holds outreach programs, and offers counseling and bereavement care. 87% of all donations go to research and patient family support. CURE is making a difference for children with cancer.

CURE’s September Gold Mailbox Campaign is in full swing. I will proudly display a bow on my mailbox in memory of my golden boy.

 

 

 

Charlie’s Fight Club

It’s not unusual for Charlie to have bruises on his legs. After all, he’s a super-active nine-year-old who loves hockey, baseball, and pretty much every other sport. But besides the bruising, his mother, Rachel, also noticed small red spots on his skin that caused her concern.

“We have friends whose son is fighting leukemia,” explained Charlie’s father, Joe. “So we had some knowledge of their journey and all the individual symptoms taken together seemed very similar.”

In late January the symptoms continued to mount. Charlie came home from school sick and lethargic, so his parents took him to their pediatrician who did a blood test. She called the next day and told them to go to the emergency room right away. She also told them that Charlie had leukemia.

When they arrived, the doctor told them that he had never seen a child’s white blood cell count as high as Charlie’s. The hospital had to move a special machine from the adult side of the hospital to do a type of dialysis that would filter out his white blood cells. Their fear was that Charlie’s elevated blood levels could damage his kidneys if they started chemotherapy right away.

Charlie reached remission at 30 days and that was a huge milestone. But it hasn’t been smooth sailing. The first phase of treatment involved heavy steroids. While he didn’t have an anger response, Charlie did have a strange reaction when a new chemotherapy was added.

“When he got what is called PEG chemo, he began to talk nonsense.” Joe said. “He was disoriented and forgot where he was and who he was. A neurologist evaluated him and said his brain was fine, but he was suffering from steroid-induced psychosis brought on by the steroids in combination with the new chemo.”

This condition lasted for two weeks. Charlie would go from being fine one minute to babbling the next. His doctor stopped the steroids one day early and the condition stopped almost immediately. Charlie is doing well now. He is halfway through his third phase of treatment and they hope to reach the less-intensive maintenance phase sometime in October.

Recently, Charlie’s Aunt found out about CURE’s Virtual Lauren’s Run and his family created a team called Charlie’s Fight Club.

“We appreciate organizations like CURE who are fighting childhood cancer,” said Joe. “This was a great way for us to raise awareness and some money to help. We’re in the middle of Charlie’s fight, but we feel compelled to do our part. We had a great time participating the Lauren’s Run!  Between our family, we completed two 5K runs, several neighborhood bike rides/scooter rides, sidewalk chalk, many acts of kindness and great family picnic with cousins to top it off.  We will definitely be doing it again next year!”